Senior Engineering Manager (Site Reliability)

About the role

Join Relay, a fast-growing fintech company, as a Senior Engineering Manager. In this senior leadership role, you will guide a strong team of Site Reliability Engineers and shape how reliability strategy influences engineering and product decisions across the organization. You will define the direction of the SRE function, drive alignment on operational excellence, and help the company anticipate and navigate scale inflection points. You will also serve as the senior reliability voice in engineering and product leadership discussions, influence product planning and architecture decisions, and act as a senior escalation point during critical production incidents. Key missions: Lead and evolve Relay’s Site Reliability Engineering function, setting strategic direction as the company scales.. Define and drive the long-term reliability roadmap, making principled tradeoffs under real business and capacity constraints.. Serve as the senior reliability voice in engineering and product leadership discussions, influencing how reliability considerations are embedded into product planning. Profile: - You bring deep SRE expertise and senior-level leadership experience - You’ve operated at scale, navigated inflection points, and understand how reliability strategy must evolve as companies grow - You thrive in fast-moving environments where reliability practices must continuously evolve - You lead with calm authority, set a high bar for ownership and accountability, and develop strong, opinionated engineers into even stronger leaders - You’ve led teams through significant production incidents and operational challenges, acting as a credible escalation leader - You’ve defined and driven reliability or platform strategy across teams or at an organizational level - You’ve owned and materially improved reliability, scalability, and performance in production systems - You have 5+ years of experience managing engineering teams and 8+ years in Site Reliability, Platform, or Infrastructure roles - You demonstrate strong technical judgment in cloud-native systems (e.g., AWS) and modern infrastructure practices (IaC, CI/CD, observability) - You’re comfortable operating at multiple altitudes; from technical design discussions to executive-level conversations about impact and strategy - You’ve influenced engineering and product leadership on reliability tradeoffs, long-term investments, and operational risk - You’ve built, evolved, or restructured SRE or platform functions in growing companies - If you’re energized by complex systems, organizational leadership, and building resilient platforms customers rely on every day, we'd love to meet you! - You’ve scaled an SRE or platform organization through a significant growth phase - You’ve implemented SLO frameworks, error budgets, and capacity planning at scale - You’ve led through organizational change or multi-team transformation - You have experience in fintech or other regulated, high-availability environments - You crave autonomy: We trust our team with big challenges and the freedom to solve them. If you’re someone who takes initiative, is comfortable taking risks, and seeks input when needed, you’ll find the freedom here empowering - You own your work: You take pride in your work, follow through on commitments, and feel a deep sense of responsibility for outcomes, not just tasks - You care about impact, not noise: You care deeply about the substance of your work. You measure success by results, not recognition and you let your work speak for itself - You treat comfort as a red flag: You seek growth. When things feel too comfortable, you lean into change. You’re excited about stepping into the unknown and navigating new terrain to create something better alongside your team - You’re energized by complexity and ambiguity: You enjoy tackling problems that don’t come with a playbook - You push relentlessly for reinvention: You’re built to constantly ask, “How can this be better?” Change excites you and you drive it - You seek out feedback: We value directness, clarity, and respect. We believe honesty fuels great work and career growth - You’re comfortable building from scratch, iterating as you go, and collaborating to shape the best path forward - Research shows that women-identifying and other marginalized individuals often apply only if they meet 100% of the qualifications. But no one is a perfect match on paper. If this role excites you, we’d love to hear from you and figure out together if it’s a great fit - You’re here for more than a job: At Relay, everything we do is in service of our mission to help small businesses thrive. To drive impact and have purpose here, that mission must matter to you too - You see feedback as a tool for learning and improvement, and you know that open, honest dialogue is key to achieving the best results — together